Introduction:
Gen Z is defined as a generation who are breaking rules and transforming social norms. Rather than adopting the traditional ways of Millennials, they are choosing a different path. Some may call it selfish, but in reality, they are redefining the rules, placing their happiness, independence and peace as the priority. And this is seen today in their views and recent trends on marriage.
For generations, marriage was considered one of life’s major milestones. It was seen as a universal symbol of love, commitment and adulthood. But in Gen Z fashion, they have changed the landscape. Instead of rushing down the aisle, they’re outdating social expectations and creating new priorities. Ones that treat marriage as an optional and often postponed life choice.
What are the marriage statistics saying today?
Statistics across the globe are all indicating the same thing: marriage rates are at the lowest levels in recorded history. In the UK, the Office for National Statistics (ONS) recorded that marriage rates dropped by nearly 50% between 1990 and 2020. Less than 1 in 5 Gen Z consider marriage to be “very important” to them, in comparison to nearly half of Baby Boomers at the same age.
Additionally, the ONS has reported that in the UK, the average age of first marriage has increased to 34 for men and 32 for women. That’s just slightly more than a decade older than the baby boomer generation. But this doesn’t mean Gen Z has given up on love or the concept of marriage. Instead, they’re redefining what love, commitment and partnership are by prioritising stability, identity and independence.
Let’s indulge in some of the reasons Gen Z have cited for why they’re choosing to say ‘I do’ later rather than sooner:
Economic realities of marriage have settled in:
If we are going to talk about the growing decline in marriages, we must talk about money. It plays a major role in the shift, with Gen Z facing some of the toughest financial conditions in decades. Sky-high rents, stagnant wages, a competitive and difficult job market, an increased level of student debt and a rising cost of living crisis. The milestone of getting married and buying a house seems nothing more than a fantasy for Gen Z.
